Throughout our lives, we're loved. By different people. Different ways. We already know TO LOVE but it is through this blend of people and their unique ways of loving, we learn HOW TO love. But most importantly we learn how NOT TO LOVE and I say most importantly because loving is embedded within us from creation but sad is the fact that we're most times more affected by negative than we are positive and that's what we carry forward with us.
We've all encountered someone who refuses to get close to anyone because they were loved but their feelings were trampled on, someone who refuses to trust another person whether or not they are worthy because they were loved but betrayed, someone who has deliberately become selfish with themselves because while being loved they were taken for granted or taken advantage of.
The thing is, these experiences could have been one out of ten yet the impact of them, reverses that ratio going forward as if they were hurt more than they weren't.
We're so much more fragile than we think and the sooner we realize that, the sooner we will at least think about how our way of love will impact someone else.
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